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The Expensive Penis Extension

So apparently it's around that time of the year when many wealthy families from the warmer climates of the middle east flock to London, bringing with them some of the most expensive and highly sought after cars in the world. The areas around Knightsbridge are flooded with Bugattis, Ferraris, Lambourginis and the like. Cars that would cost more than some people earn in a lifetime. When you come from a wealthy oil-rich country, dropping a few £1000k on a car is probably not as big a deal as it would be to some people. After all, wealth and expenditure is

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Mirror, Mirror On The Wall

Another Monday, another Day 1 for men around the world that want to transform into a better version of themselves. This is the 41st 'Day 1' of the year! Take a good look in the mirror. Go ahead, long, hard look. Look at yourself! What do you see? Is it the man that you envisioned yourself to be at the start of 2016? When you sat down to plan your goals for 2016, is there where you saw yourself? Are you where you want to be? Are you even close to where you want to be? What you see before

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The Titanic Battle of 2 Laps

There was a time in my past when protecting my own personal energy, confidence and to some extent health was not the priority it is now. I'm going to tell you a story about when me and a friend of mine found ourselves in a local strip club, ready to party! Back then, I would've felt like a serious 'playa' 'Big Time Charlie' & that all my actions made me great, when the reality is, I was the exact opposite. On this particular occasion, both me and a friend have a booth, enjoying the company of a couple of the

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Bed-Post Notch Bull$hit

On Saturday I was travelling home and instead of my usual thing of listening to an audio book, I instead hit shuffle on my music. Now, I have a rather varied, eclectic taste in music, from classical to acoustic folk, to thrash metal from deep, tech house and RnB. So it was no surprise when Justin Timberlake followed a classical piece from Ludo Einaudi that was preceded by acoustic folk from Nick Harper. The thing is, the JT track was from his 1st album, Justified and it evoked so many memories, as music has a tendency to do. Back in 2002-2003 when that album came out, I was fresh

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Mindset Makeover

So yesterday I explained how so many men fail to deliver the outcomes they're striving for, simply by focusing on the wrong aspect they should. Quick recap for those that missed it. Too many people focus on changing their behaviours, because behaviours are directly related to outcomes. The problem is, without fundamentally changing your mindset, which is what your behaviours are directly related to, you can't effect the changes to your outcomes. You're basically skipping a step, which is also, unfortunately, the most important step too. A Mindset Shift is required to get the process going, which usually comes about

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What Dollard, Dobb & Co Taught Me

When I was in college, I studied quite a few different subjects. Of course there was the standard Physical Education A Level you'd expect someone interested in sport and fitness to take. But alongside that, I studied sociology, psychology and also philosophy I loved social sciences, particularly psychology and the theory behind human behaviour. 'Why we think the things we do.' 'Do the things we do.' 'Or don't' on many occasions, 'Even when we know deep down we should!' I remember discussing the theory behind people that became aggressive because of frustration. It's actually called 'The Frustration/Aggression Hypothesis' and was proposed way back in 1930's by Dollard, Doob, Miller, Mower, and Sears. It goes some way to explain why some people get angry and confrontational when they are denied success

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Can You Send Me More Information…

As you know, my emails can be pretty fiery. They can stir up some serious emotion in people. Usually after a particularly 'intense' email, (like the one coming next week...) i quite often get a direct response. As soon as i see the 'RE:[insert subject line], i know what's coming. Either, I'm getting some abuse because evidently i'm touched a nerve, so much so, the person has felt strongly enough to vent directly at me. If only they carried that same impassioned fire into achieving what it is they really wanted, they wouldn't be directing expletives at me via email, but anyway. Option 2 is less 'colourful', but no less frustrating. "I'm really interested in your programme,

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